Poop complaints TMI

I’m 39+2 today with baby 2. I normally poop 2 times a day but for the last month or so I’ve been down to 1 a day. I’m on day 4 of 3-4 poops a day. This normally wouldn’t bother me BUT they are “dirty poops”. 😖 Not diarrhea but softer than normal and leave my booty messy. I use our bidet and wipe till clean but after a few minutes I don’t feel clean so I use a wet wipe and find more particles. Wipe till clean again. My bum hurts! It’s sore and uncomfortable (like I need something else to be uncomfortable at close to 10 months pregnant). So I put coconut oil up in my crack to calm down the pain. But after several minutes I feel unclean again. Wipe with toilet paper.. MORE POO PARTICLES!! 😫😫 WTF man!??? It takes me from one poo to the next to get clean and by then I have to poop again. Wtf is going on?!? I’d rather have diarrhea than this shit. No pun intended.