I’m overwhelmed and honestly I just wanted to share and vent. this with somebody and just get and outsiders perspective. Am I being oversensitive. So one of my in laws bills in under my husband name because of their legal status here in the USA they needed help with that. So my husband have been paying for that but they do give him the money for what he pay every month. But now my husband mentioned that they haven’t paid for last month bill and now he mentioned that they are kind of struggling because her mom haven’t worked for two weeks now and his dad doesn’t have a stable secure job. When we were talking about it It got to me because he doesn’t even tell me this things. I stay at home and he is the one that brings the money so I feel that I don’t have a say in this situations. He already have being paying for his dad car insurance for years now. He gave his dad a thousand dollars without even sharing with me about it a while back. He paid for his dad flight tickets last month because he didn’t have the money. He said he was going to pay him back but I doubt they will.

So is upsetting because he just decide this things without even sharing with me. We have our own debt and bills to pay and he is here paying someone else bill even if it is their parents. It just so frustrating because apparently I can’t share my feelings or thoughts because he gets defensive and tells me to not talk about his mom when I’m not even insulting her or saying bad things about her. I’m just telling him about the issue of him paying the bill and her not giving him the money. Would appreciate some opinions on this that will help me thanks!