What should i do?

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I blocked the dad of my baby due him being truly negative and telling me that he doesn’t want to be on the birth certificate and his mom was already talking to me like I’m a poor black woman trying to take her son future payout (we both in college) mind you that part kills me the bdad comes to my house hang around my family he’s screaming I’m the father and how much he loves my family but then turns around to his family and say he’s not the father to the point his family texting me asking me for a dna test. ( his father called me trying to say  i wanna bring so much things for the baby i wanna help but i felt it was not being real then he says this) should i send this or should i get the test and prove them or block them and take this opportunity to run away..

The second one is what the baby dad sent to my brother

i didn’t want to be known so I’m going to type it here but i talked to him about stop letting his parents control our baby so many times i asked him to let’s talk alone on it & he goes & say  my parents knows better i knew them longer so they are always right and I’m just tired below is messages he sent me before

EDIT: i don’t think i want him in my life anymore and i think I’ll just be happier as single mother I’ve been doing already alone with no help i can keep doing it when the time is right I’ll tell the baby the truth and nothing but the truth.
 His family doesn’t live in my state and I have plenty of support from my family 🤍
I’ve been working my ass off to provide for my unborn not once have i asked this family for anything.

Accepted Answer

So don't put aan on a birth certificate who doesn't want your child. Don't give the child his name. Block him on all social media, block him from any contact and don't allow him in your life at all. Block all of his family from social media and your phone too. No reason to allow any of them to have access to you at all. 
When the baby is born get a custody lawyer and file for full custody. Keep any text he's sent saying he doesn't want the baby to show in court and if you want to get him for child support you do all that through the court so you still don't have any contact with him. You'll bring your baby in for DNA sample and the father goes separately. 
You never have to speak to the man and his family again.
Don't tell them when the baby is born. They can find out when he gets served by the court and since you should have them all blocked they will have no reason to bitch at you.
Don't give these people any power over your life.
Focus on creating the best, healthiest, happiest life for your baby. Forget these assholes.

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Start looking into getting custody and child support and a DNA test. I wouldn't wait to get all paperwork after you've had your baby. Also find a good lawyer.

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I would get the DNA test, prove him and his family wrong, and still block them out of my life afterwards.

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It sounds like his parents are really doing a number on him and he’s confused. Absolutely not fair to you, just seeing it from another side. 
Maybe tell him to start making his own decisions. His parents need to cool it. They’re not letting him be a grown up. 
If this is his child he does have rights and should. Perhaps him coming to see the child alone, where you two can talk without parents might be beneficial.

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Give him his DNA test when it’s court ordered in order to put him on child support.

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Im thinking a little different here, what has your baby dad said to his family to make them think the baby may not be his? Do they even know you? He might have said a few things thats pushing his family to ask a dna test. The guy’s father sounded respectful to me. Dont dismiss your baby dad even thou he says its his parents who wants this, maybe he painted you a certain way and now they are questioning you.

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Block him for now. Do what everyone else is saying and have a lawyer and all that figured out so you aren’t running around last minute after baby is born. Do the DNA test. 
Personally I wouldn’t have contact with him until it’s closer to your due date or after baby is born and see what he’s thinking then. It sounds to me like he was originally happy to be a father but his parents are manipulating him and now he’s confused as hell. That’s not fair to you, but from his point of view, he’s probably being torn in half here between what he wants (or THOUGHT he wanted) and what his parents are putting in his head. Even couples (both men AND women) who planned to have a baby can get antsy or have doubts once they’re actually staring at that positive test. It’s a huge life altering event. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with him wanting the DNA test either. He needs to sort his shit out for himself without causing you stress. If it comes time that the baby is here and you ask him so what do you want and he still says he doesn’t want to be on the birth certificate, then that’s it. If he apologizes and says he does want to be a father, then go to court to establish a custody arrangement and everything else.

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From what I’m reading, both of you guys are two young people who have entered into a sector of adulthood nobody was prepared for. I agree with holding onto all the text messages sent to you but you don’t have to respond because it’ll just cause you unnecessary stress on your pregnancy. 
I agree with obtaining a family court lawyer who will handle the legalities of DNA test and custody on your behalf. Just focus on keeping your stress level down and having a safe and healthy delivery.

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Get the dna test now make him pay for it then block his ass on everything 🙌🏼😂

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Is he black or white ? This is sad.

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