21 week anatomy scan monday

Im extremely worried about my ultrasound monday mfm first apointment with high risk ultrasound. Littl history my last child whos now 10 was born with a kidney defect duplex uriters to both kidneys and bc the wack job dr i had at redington fairview in skowhegan maine dr wisse (do not go to this dr he is horrible almost killed me and my child) he missed the kidney defect at my 20 week scan with my son now im 21 weeks with my first daughter and am honestly afraid she will have the same kidney issue my son only has on functioning kidney due to the dr not doing what should have been done did not tell me about the issue either. Now im scared bc if she does then her first few years of life are spent on antibiotics and that is hard on a kid my son is doing well but he even asked if his baby sister would be like him. Im just wanting my daughter to be ok and not go through hell her first years of life like my son did. I dont want that for any child. Just worried and scared for the health of my daughter. Has any one else had a child born with similar kidney issues?