Not affectionate after sex

So after I wanted a kiss and he goes “uuhg you want a kiss every 10 minutes“

It hurt my feelings and I started to detach my feelings and he could tell. So then he goes give me a kiss what I did wasn’t right. At that point I gave him the cold shoulder and went somewhere else in the house.

I felt alone and unwanted. Now I feel like I don’t even wanna ask for kisses anymore and that’s my favorite thing to do.

Has this ever happened to any of you? If so how do you deal with it!

Side note he isn’t that affectionate in the first place and I told him I feel like he isn’t attracted to me, but he said that crazy and he loves me but uhhh the way he makes Mae feel sometimes says otherwise