Do I have a right to be mad at my husband ?
So I am in my first trimester and I am sick and tired all the time! Yesterday was pretty bad. I told him I wanted to lay down after dinner (around 7pm) and he said he’d lay with me till I fell asleep and then he planned on playing video games with his friends in the basement since he has the day off tomorrow. (He works 6 days a week and tomorrow is his only day off) I told him okay no problem. So I fell asleep about 8:30 and he kissed me and went to the basement. I woke up around 2 am to go to the bathroom and he wasn’t there. I texted him and asked if he was coming to bed soon & he said “yes soon still playing” so I go back to bed. I wake up again at 4 am and he was still in the basement playing games and drunk af. I got annoyed. When he came to bed I told him I was mad at him and he said “I’m a grown man I didn’t know I had a bed time” and then I was like well yeah.. I guess he’s right? It was just annoying he didn’t come to bed till 4:30 am and he was drunk 😭 I also just kept thinking about how we had our first ultrasound at 9 am the next day and if he was gonna get up for it. & what do you know he’s struggling bad. He’s puking this morning, he’s sluggish. He keeps falling back asleep I have to come in and say “15 more mins; 10 more mins, and here we are at 5 mins before we have to leave. He gets out of bed and starts puking again. Not dressed. Didn’t brush his teeth. Ugh. He says he’ll be in the car in 5. I just don’t see that happening. I’m annoyed. Do I have the right to be mad at him?
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