Could use advice

Hey ladies.

I’m 32 and spent the entirety of my 20s with a man-child who strung me along promising that he wanted the same things I did only to cheat on me for the majority of our 9 year relationship. One of the major things in our relationship was wanting kids.

Now, I want to be a mom more than anything. I’m ready, willing and able, and am now with an amazing guy. The only problem here is he is a bit of a flip flopper in that he says he wants to have kids with me but keeps pushing it down the road as a “let’s just do X first” or finding reasons not to start trying. It’s really putting me through a loop and I’m pretty upset about it at this point. I’ve been with this man for just under 2 years and moved across the country in part to be with him as we were long distance when things started.

Any advice on what to do or how to bridge this gap? I’m mostly worried that this pushing things off is going to continue long term and I’ll miss out on the thing I want most out of life.

Thanks in advance!!