Example one of why you should cohabitate before getting married

This is why I recommend living with somebody before committing to the person like getting married or having a kid. Before me and my baby daddy (not calling him my fiancé ‘cause he’s not acting like the man I said yes to) move in together I specifically told him that I love that he cleans up after himself because when we live together I expect him to do the same because he also lives there. when we first moved in it was like that, he can’t cook so I would cook when he gets home so he would have dinner rest a little bit and wash the dishes, take the trash out ( if it needs to be taken out and I didn’t take it out) and then go to his second job(Uber). he would also help with the laundry (kinda) and I didn’t have a problem with this because I feel he was pulling his weight. fast-forward it’s now been a year now he comes home have his dinner sleep and leave he no longer does the dishes, I would have to do them. the bathroom gets cleaned once a month because I’m pregnant and he doesn’t want me to be in all the chemicals. pretty much everything he was doing before we lived together and before I got pregnant he stopped doing. I also have a job I try to come home before he comes home or cook in time to go pick him up from work so he has a fresh hot meal, if I am too tired to wash the dishes or put them in the dishwasher they stay there until I do them, The bathroom actually doesn’t get clean unless I start whining about it, The trash stays there until either A) I take it out or B) kind of start smelling a little. I don’t believe household chores have a gender role but I do believe that is something both individual should be doing it’s not the woman’s place and it’s not the man’s place it’s both. This man now has the audacity to complain about him having dinner late at night like around eight at the latest or him not getting breakfast made in the morning, not getting fucked when he want to or his dick sucked when he wants to. Like you expect me to go to work come home cook your dinner clean up after you clean the house that we both live in and then get down on my knees all while growing a baby and all you get to do is come home and shit down. I don’t know if he forgot who is asked to marry him cause it sure as hell isn’t me and I refuse to be that woman.