I just really want to feel like I’m not the only one… or that this time will be different.

Did anyone else not get a bump?

I had my son at 35 weeks and never had a bump. Flatter than ever.. not even bloated. I went to the ER (a lot, I have HG) at 32 weeks for preterm labor last pregnancy and the front desk person thought I was lying that I was pregnant.

Don’t get me wrong.. it was nice to be able to get my shoes on and bend and such but.. I’m getting really insecure again because I’m 12 weeks this time and not even bloated at this point. I have a feeling it’ll be the same thing again. It’s just really depressing. I don’t get the comments or the clothes or anything..