My mum recently asked if I wanted to move back home to live with her. My mum and I bump heads a lot she has major medical issues going on. However my unborn daughters father is using the excuse that he was born in the south and will never live in a "yanky" state. I'm Massachusetts born and miss my family and friends back home. He doesn't work hasn't helped around the house we live in and has called me lazy because I'm constantly tired from being pregnant. He plays video games on PC and basically expects me to pay all the bills while he sits on his ass. My mum although we bump heads both of us are strong willed and set in our beliefs. I have trust issues with my family do to their past behaviors and manipulation I'm torn between staying and leaving but I know living with her is extremely stressful and can cause my own medical issues to worsen. My mum also adopted my son's when they were babies due to my medical issues so I'm torn between going home and staying where I am.