Bleeding with sex

**** Please do not read if you’re not 18+ ****

So recently started seeing a new guy after leaving a loveless long term relationship.

New guy and I recently slept together (like twice a day for four days straight, oops 🙊) and each time AFTER the first interaction I ended up bleeding. It wasn’t a friction/lubrication issue (trust me) or a lack of foreplay. We used lube if/when we needed it. I got over my last period like 1.5 weeks before we hooked up, so I’m doubtful that’s related to the bleeding.

He is significantly larger than my previous partner (8.5” with GIRTH 😮‍💨) and we do go a bit rough.

I know his size and the intensity of the sex are both more than likely the causes for the bleeding. However, it’s kind of embarrassing and idk what to do other than to slow the pace down in the bedroom. It’s especially going to be an issue if it continues to happen every. single. time. we have sex. (He did say his previous partners never bled, but he also admitted he never went quite as rough with them either)

Planning on visiting my GYN soon just to chat this over with her, but was eager to see if anyone had any additional input or experience on a topic like this.

Thanks! 💕