Obgyn

Alli

For some reason every Obgyn won’t listen to me of what I prefer. I’ve had two very hard natural births that nearly caused me and my children to not be here, yet when I tell them this and ask for a C-section they look at me like I said an alien is the father. My OB put it in my chart that I am demanding things be done my way or not at all, I hardly even talk at the OB appointments except when I complain of the severe nausea that I get IV treatments for (she put me on then yelled at me for doing them) or stating that I want a C-section. There are NO other OB’s where I live because everyone is due in December and they are capped out apparently. I hate being treated like a child when I try to talk to them about my issues like an adult. She looked at my birth plan and basically threw it in the trash with a look of not gonna happen. What do I do?