A man’s not been able to make me finish and I’ve been having sex for a while now. It’s slowly starting to really get to my nerves.

Yes, I have communicated this, and yes, there’s been tons of clitoral stimulation as well as oral sex. I’ve also been on top & I’ve tried sober, drunk, high….all with the same outcome.

I know how to please myself but when it comes to having actual sex, it just doesn’t get to that point

Am I not in the right headspace ??? What is happening ? Is something wrong ??

Help! Does anyone else struggle with this? Any helpful tips?