So a little back story I’m 26 married to my husband we been together 10 years married 5. We are currently pregnant with our 3rd baby. I have the worst in laws ever. They hate me Well my mother Law and sister in law do. Since day 1 they never gave me a chance and always talk bad about me about anything 🤦🏻‍♀️ etc. it’s been a big issue to where my husband has cut them off until they stopped and respected me. I’m 3 months pregnant now and my husband has said he doesn’t plan on telling my mother in law because she’s never had anything good to say each time we announce. She actually used to try to tell us how many kids to have. When we had my second she would tell us and other people yeah no they won’t be having anymore. Like lady it’s not ur choice how many babies we want. We are stable and grown my husband actually wants 4 I’m good with 3 anyways… we announced it to my family they are always so happy for us each time 🥹 I’m blessed to have them. They love my babies my husband everything. My mother in law never calls to check on my husband or her grandkids I can go on ohh but she will post pictures of them on social media acting like the best grandma ever 🤦🏻‍♀️ I feel bad for my husband I’ve tried many times to be the one who try’s to have a relationship with them but it’s impossible. They are older than me u would think they acted their age. I lowkey wish in laws find out that someone slips up and they know that they aren’t even being included due to their toxic ways. I just know they are going to blame me for not telling them lol the shock they will get when they find out it was my husband who made that choice. So I guess we’re just going to show up with our new baby and go from there 😅 I’m due March 2023 so wish us luck 🫶🏽