I never see any positive posts about becoming a mom. When i express my excitement about being a mom, I pretty much get told my life is over and I’m going to be miserable. On my Facebook feed, all i get is posts about losing yourself and being miserably exhausted. Is it just lack of support from your partner? Family? I don’t get it. If you know being a mom is hard, why make it worse with the “just you wait” comments when someone has something positive to say. I’m not saying tell me it’s going to be rainbows and sunshine but why are we not a little bit more positive when it comes to motherhood? It’s quite depressing and discouraging to just hear how horrible it will all be. I feel like people treat me like i made the biggest mistake of my life to grow my family with my husband.