Too Much Stimulation ???

Question

So when hubs goes downtown, it always feels good until at some point (usually happens quickly) it feels like it’s too much (like I’m gonna pee all over) and I have him stop. So obviously no orgasm…
And I’m sure I should just push through it and let him keep going but it doesn’t feel like the build up of an orgasm. And I don’t wanna pee/“squirt” for nothing. Not that he would mind!
However, I never feel that overwhelming sensation with a vibrator and orgasm every time! 
Can’t a girl just have an awesome O from her man??

Answer

Is he inserting his fingers during oral? He might be putting pressure on your bladder. This is typical when men tries to rub the non-existent g-spot.
You can always tell him that you feel like you have to squirt, and ask him if he is ok with you just letting go. Who knows, it may trigger your orgasm, or just do nothing for you. At least you will know then.
Pee and squirting is the same fluid. When you are sexually stimulated, your endocrine system goes into overdrive because of the rush of blood through your pelvis. This fluid is slightly less concentrated than urine, but it is basically pee. When you release it during sexual activities, it is called squirting and it is sought after by many men and women.
So how do you orgasm from intercourse with your partner?
Since you already know how to orgasm when you masturbate, you already know the answer without realizing it.
You have two organs “down there”. One for reproduction and one for pleasure. Since they are so close together, they get confused, and besides, sex-ed sucks big time.

Your vagina is for reproduction. It is your birth canal, and a safe place for your partner to ejaculate his sperm to get you pregnant. It is also an outlet for your menstrual flow. To protect you from trauma caused by pain, your vagina is largely without nerve endings, leaving it mostly with very little feeling. If it was very sensitive inside, child birth, menstruation, inserting tampons, infections and sex would be intolerable. Unfortunately sex with a male partner is mostly concentrated around your vagina with his penis pumping in and out of it.

Your clitoris is actually your primary pleasure organ. It is the equivalent of the male penis, except that you do not ejaculate, and you do not pee through it. It is a massive organ, going almost 15 cm inside your body. It forms 2 wishbone structures, the 2 fat bulbs that are going under your lips towards your vaginal entrance, and two thin long legs that goes deeper in your body. Just that little tip that you can see and feel (the glans) has more than 8,000 nerve endings, making it the most sensitive organ anywhere on a human body. In other words, it is made for stimulation, leading to orgasms. That is quite literally its only job – pleasure leading to orgasms.

During normal sex, most women do not get enough stimulation to their clitoris to orgasm. Only about 20% to 30% can orgasm from just intercourse. Research has shown that it is because their clitoris is close enough to their vaginal opening so that the thrusting of the penis also stimulate their clitoris. The rest of us need extra clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex. There are a number of ways to achieve this. It may feel unnatural in the beginning, but it will become second nature pretty quickly and it holds the keys to a great sex life.

During sex, you need to stimulate your clitoris. You can do it with your fingers, his fingers, a small clitoral vibrator, a couples vibrator or by changing how you move during sex. Giving your clitoris extra stimulation by rubbing or vibration is easier done with you on top, or him behind you. And it is pretty much just masturbating while he is inside you.

Changing the way you move can also give you great orgasms. With him fully inside you, tilt your pelvis so that your clitoris makes contact with his body. The rub, squeeze and grind in small movements on him. There is no rule that states that sex must be the in/out up/down that does so little for you. When you get more adept with this, you can even end the in-stroke with a sweep of your clitoris on his body, giving you back this typical in/out motion. This is also much easier done with you on top where you can control the movements. 

There is even a sex position that achieves this very efficiently called the coital alignment technique (or C.A.T.). You can google it. It is difficult to explain here and it takes some practice and experimentation.

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Yes she can!   Just let it go    He would love it.

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Squirt isn’t piss. It’s a urethral lubricant, with as much pee in it as there’s pee is in cum.

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Let go and ride it out

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