Unsupportive partner 💔💩

I need to rant because I feel like I’m going to explode! (Also IF you’re gonna judge or say something negative I recommend keeping it to yourself because I will tell you off) with that being said hello! Everyone…. Have you guys ever experienced your partner not being supportive!? IE: with your kids, around the house or even with a new pregnancy!? That’s currently where I am. My partner has basically given me two options terminate(abort) OR he’s moving out. Honestly, I don’t have anymore fight left in me and I told him there’s the door. He looked taken aback I guess he was not expecting my answer but it’s been almost 7yrs of this and I feel like I’m at my breaking point. I’ve done it all! Plus more; I’ve been the part-time employed mom, I’ve been the full-time employed, worn out mom, full-time and college student mom, now I’m the stay at home mom “his choice” because he’s gotten controlling to the point I can’t leave the kids more than an hour with him before he starts blowing up my phone asking where I am or when I’m coming back home. I’m currently 6wks and 2days in our state it’s illegal to perform an abortion after 6wks. But it’s like I’ve attempted to get him to see and understand WHY is this child not as important as our others. Or who’s to say I agree to go through with the procedure and something goes wrong!? I have children to think about. Or that I do go through with the procedure and few months down the road get pregnant again!? It take two to tango and he HATES condoms, my birth control failed (pill) and now I’m pregnant. But it’s easy for him because it’s not his body nor his emotional well-being in peril. And I see how easy it is for him to detach himself entirely. I’m frustrated, hurt and depressed, I don’t know what to do anymore to avoid the fights.