Help..

So my boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. He never really seems to want to have sex with me. And today I found a bunch of saved images from only fans of naked women and videos too. Then I found pictures and videos that he has taken of me without me knowing.. even one through the crack in the door. I feel so violated and also torn on if I should just let it go. He left on a trip till tomorrow with his buddy and I just don’t know what to do or how to feel. We just moved in together an hour away from his home and he also left his job for me. I just am so confused