What are for you reasons to either work on a relationship or moving on?

I'm wondering because our relationship is rocky.

I believe it's abusive as well but I'm not entirely sure.

-I'm meeting up with a psychologist the 30th kind of mostly to check if my mind is right or something? -

I'm just kind of wondering how other people are.. like what are deal-breakers in a relationship? What are issues you as a couple could work on?

What are things you believe aren't compromisable?

I understand it's very personal but I do believe there is probably a lot of common ground.. I am just here to learn about what is normal and what isn't because I've been only in toxic relationships.. I had an abusive mom and brother and I just don't know what normal is.. I guess..

My previous therapist told me that I have a really good moral compas.. but my partner told me I was overreacting every time I got uncomfortable with things... so I don't know really... I just want to learn from you guys I guess..