Upset for nothing?

Not sure if many of you live in Florida or are familiar with the possible hurricane that can hit. But, I am a 23 female and my boyfriend is a 27 male we live together for the most part but we live with our parents on separate occasions as we save for our house. He is normally at his dads 1-2 days out of the week while he is with me most of the time. We both just moved to this state hence the reason we stay with our parents as we save and why I’m nervous if this could be our first hurricane. My dad who works in a hospital and informed me that his job is going to require him to stay at the hospital for the next few days due to the hurricane/flooding so I will be in the house alone. He is helping me prep as much as he can before he has to leave and my mom is out of the country. He informed me that his dad is forcing him to stay at his house which is a little over an hour away and I was expecting us to be together through this not that I’m asking him to take care of my parents house if things hit the fan but, I just wanted and needed him here. His dad and I no longer have the best relationship as there was a previous fall out so I know I’m not welcome in his house. It honestly upset me because he said I’m a grown women and will be fine and started making jokes about it, and he needs to make sure his dad who is decently young and has another family of his own that they are good. It just made me feel slightly upset because it was like I was the last of his priority. I don’t want to bring it up because it might cause a argument but am I wrong for feeling a little upset. I understand he wants to be there for his family but me who has no one to help or rely on I’ll be stuck on my own. Am I wrong for being a little upset… and should I tell him how I feel? I don’t want to tell him how I feel and than this hurricane happens and we end on bad terms… and I don’t want his family to think I’m taking him away from them.. but lately I feel like since I’m literally doing everything on my own and taking care of things on my own as there has been other instances where he picked his dad over me that I just need to be on my own.