So our sons first birthday party with our family and friends was this afternoon. I’m currently 13 weeks pregnant with our daughter and this pregnancy has been absolutely debilitating. I’ve been in 4 different nausea medications and none of them have worked and I’m still vomiting on average 15 - 25 times every single day on top of being on bedrest for bleed around my placenta. So I’ve obviously needed help with our son more than I had because of this. Fast forwarding to this afternoon my finance went out of this way to openly complain and make fun of me going even as far as saying it’s just laziness and then comparing me to an overdramatic hospice patient. My family and I do not have a great relationship and have been outwardly verbally and emotionally manipulative and abusive my whole life until recently but the relationship is still very rocky so I was humiliated that he would even say things like this in front of them making me feel and seem like a terrible mother when they aren’t aware of how severe I have been sick. Am I being overdramatic for being upset about this or does it seem warranted?