Opened relationship? Cheating boyfriend? I don’t know

Ladies I know I should go but I can’t

I am 23 years old. I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 18.

He cheats on me all the time. I used to see him tagged on Facebook with random girls. I’d confront him he would say it was just a friend. It happened time and time and time again. Until he “deleted” his Facebook then come to find out he just blocked me.

I would find eye shadow applicators in his car, he would tell me he was working late, then a friend would call me and tell me they saw him out at a club, one time my brother even caught him out on a date with a girl, can’t even tel you how many friends texted me a screen shot of his tinder account.

My bf confessed yes, he does cheat, but he doesn’t really consider it cheating, more that we have an open relationship.

He promises once we get married he will be committed to me.

He tells me he needs to go out and be with other girls to have the experience, since we’ve been together for so long. He tells me that if he doesn’t get it out of him system now, he won’t be able to commit to me later. He tells me that these women are just for sex and fun and I am the one he will ultimately marry and then commit to me

He tells me bh this time next year we will be engaged.

He tell me not to think of it as cheating, just an open relationship.

I agree to this, because I do think one day he will commit to me.

I work at an advertising agency and a repeat client has always shown interest in me. He really is such a great guy, funny and good looking. I told him in the past I had a boyfriend, but since my relationship is open maybe I should explore something with him? Or maybe not mix work with pleasure- maybe I should explore options tho.

My friend set me up with a guy- we were going to go out next weekend- I know this guy and he’s ok, he seems nice, but I never really had attraction to him, but if he’s nice to me, does attraction even matter?

I told my bf I had a date and he got mad. He told me that after years of me giving him shit about fucking around now I am going to do it, and I’m a hypocrite. He told me if I start seeing other guys, he will not marry me.

What the fuck- how is this an open relationship?

I know I should leave. I am young I am attractive and I have a good career. I know I should leave.

But I can’t help but wonder. Maybe once we do get married he will finally commit. Maybe I need to just hold out for another year.