Would you find this weird?

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If a guy you’re dating for 1.5 months has never initiated sex. Says he is a low libido man and prefers cuddling. I have to initiate every time. He enjoys it but doesn’t seem that passionate, doesn’t make any noise and seems uncomfortable about dirty talk. But one day he sends you a tiktok about anal sex, would you think this is weird? 
He told me all his exes enjoyed anal and he thinks I would like it too and now I feel a bit weird about things.

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yeah the man probably is gay as hell lmao

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Him bringing up that his exes liked that 🚩

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You’re allowed to not agree to sexual acts. Just tell him you don’t want anal. It doesn’t matter what his exes liked. He should not be comparing you to his exes. That’s disrespectful.

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Yeah that’s weird. I knew a guy like this too. He said he preferred cuddling… the anal thing is also weird though considering he doesn’t initiate sex. And bringing up his exes. Wtf.

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He’s gay 😂

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No. His exs did not enjoy anal. That's an excuse to make you feel like you're the issue of you don't like it. It's strange.  He's already getting off through sex not sure why he wouldn't want to make you feel good too. Red flag.

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ew no thanks

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Nah no thank you. He ain’t it

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At first I was gonna say he may be shy because maybe he thinks you better than him so it makes him self-conscious BUT however him saying his ex's liked that was a really dumb thing to say so I'ma pass on this one 😂

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If he has a low sex drive that's normal for him. If that doesn't work for you just end it and don't drag it out. If you're not sexually compatible you will always be disappointed and eventually become resentful.

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