How to live with a drunk partner

Been married 9yrs now but oh my. This dri king getting drunk business still gets me worked up so MAD!

Getting hitched and married wasn't tht bad only about 6months married and after our daughter was born things took a turn.

I have tried counseling with experts, family and just 2 of us but nothing. I have tried ignoring but now is too much cause he also killed someone on drink n drive n hit a motorbike with 2 passengers who were severely hurt. Literally a police case and everything 4months ago.

As I write am 7wks pregnant and it's started again late night. Long hours who know where, not picking calls, empty promises and if come back is drunk, smelling and not my cup of tea. How do you advice here on as pregnancy Hormones are just jumpstarting and I know myself I don't want to be angry and depressed as that'll hurt the babies. Help a sis out with a word or 2 of advice.

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