Soooooo annoyed!

So I announced to my immediate family over Thanksgiving (from Canada) that I'm pregnant - mainly because I knew they would notice me not drinking, but I'm only 9 weeks so I'm not ready to publicly announce yet. My aunt, who wasn't even supposed to come (as again was just immediate family), ended up coming and so I also shared the news with her. Immediately after telling them I made a huge announcement that I am not ready to tell other people and to please just keep the information to yourselves as I likely won't tell people until Christmas. On top of this, we have been under fertility treatments for over 4 years and this is my miracle baby so of course I want to be the one to share my own good news! But my freaking aunt, goes and tells her brother (my uncle), without telling me, and I get a text from him saying congrats! So needless to say I'm pissed, she not only blatantly disrespected my wishes, but also took away my opportunity to share the news I've been waiting 4 years to be able to share!! I'm so upset. On top of this, I felt like such an asshole telling my uncle that I'm not ready to share this and to please keep to himself, because now I'm scared he will tell more family. Now what I thought would he a happy time for me feels so utterly ruined and I'm honestly just so mad/frustrated/heartbroken over. Not sure why else to post except to vent but it just feels like she pulled the rug out from under my happy story.....