My MIL told my husband
Okay so I've made a couple posts about the situation I've been in. Long story short. Took my MIL out for drinks after her 5th divorce. She got drunk and started crying and told me she spent too much time chasing men and it's her fault my husband got sold into sex trafficking for 4 years at 19 by his older best friend. My husband never told me this the entire time we were married and we've together 10 years but I decided to let him come to me. While I was washing dishes he told me his mom came by to say sorry to him. K asked what for and he said something that happened 16 years ago and then said that she was sorry because she told me what happened 16 years ago and he asked if I knew. I said yes and I just wanted him to be the one to tell me. He didn't say anything and I asked if he wanted to talk about it and he said "Nope. No no no". I just okay and if he's sure. I asked him was I wrong not to tell him and he said no but his mom was wrong to tell me and I agreed. He also told me that he watched a tiktok over a year ago where a women was saying women aren't rehab for broken men. He doesn't want to be seen as a broken men and like it's my job to make him better. I told him it's not like that at all and he supports me and I want to support him but when I touched him he closed his eyes and flinched and said he was gonna go have a smoke break. He doesn't smoke a lot, except for when he's stressed. I feel bad now and don't know if not telling him was the right or wrong thing to do and don't even know how to make him feel happy.
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