Am I being a bitch?

My little one is turning 2 soon My fiancé has a stable communication with his dad, his dad abandoned him since he was 1 year old, and reappeared in his life as an adult his dad did re-marry and has adult children. My daughters grandparents from her dad side have not called me all year to ask for pictures or if they can drive down to see her. NO excuses! They always want me to call them, us to go see them, me to send the pictures or to initiate the conversation. We live 3 hours away by car, they are constantly traveling they both have very good jobs and seem to have a-lot of free time! But they don’t seem to care about their only granddaughter that is literally 3 hours away… we can’t make the drive because my fiancé runs a business in witch he likes to do the jobs so missing work is very hard for him to do, our daughter is also at the tantrum age we’re she can’t be in a car seat for longer then a hour. So us going to them is very hard. They haven’t called all year.. haven’t asked for pictures, I stopped sending pictures when I realized that if they wanted to they would!!! Either send a message, or give me a call or plan to come down… my fiancé doesn’t want them at her birthday this year because he wants to prove his point. They know her birthday is coming up. But I can’t help but feel guilty. Are we wrong?