Nothing is good enough!

Does anyone else feel like nothing is good enough when you are a mom? For example, when I gave birth to my son 2 years ago my husband and I agreed that I would only work one 12 hour shift a week because he was working 50-60 hours a week and this way I could stay home…after about a year I started doing 2 shifts one week, one shift the next etc. About a month ago I started a new job and I now work 3 8-10 hour shifts a week but no weekends or holidays or nights. I also pick up when they need me and I’m able…my husband put me down yesterday for agreeing to work so much but he is always wanting to spend extra money…if I don’t work extra we can’t afford the extra things he wants and I want to be able to give him things he wants. If I do work extra and give him the things he wants he’s upset I’m not home with our son as much. I just feel stuck like I can’t make him happy no matter what. Is this normal?