Sometimes people need other people's help. Sometimes family friends who have had a surgery need help sometimes family friends who are battling with a disease or sickness or cancer need help. Sometimes people who have been scarred from past need help. Is it wrong for people to depend on others for help?

It seems like people treat others like a problem like a burden for asking or needing help I don't know if it's wrong to be helped by people or not I understand the people helping can get frustrated the job isn't for everyone even nurses sometimes get angry and even doctor's get upset at there patients. In private many people don't know cesarean is a complicated surgery.

I don't know what to do because if you think family loves you a husband or a boyfriend loves you but then who will take care of you?

If you need help who will care for you and for how long and how long until it becomes a problem a chore a burden until they want you to deal with it yourself they don't want to carry the weight anymore.

It makes me wonder are people really alone?

Some people are so blessed they don't even know they have been given the gift of being loved they have a ton of friends even strangers flock to them they have family that loves them will even call them to check how they are they have people who genuinely care about them and will be worried if they are sick they have people who will be there through tough times and easy times they have a spouse that will take care of them.

There are others that are almost alone in life the parents want them to be independent and leave them alone there siblings family doesn't call doesn't care it's hard to make friends the friends they had have don't make time don't call text don't care the boyfriend breaks up the dog best friend dies the strangers aren't friendly there's no real support system and they didn't do anything different than the person above it's just the person above has a gift of being loved and people don't understand they see people going through divorce they see people who don't have friends and they think genuine that they want to be left alone they are happy living in loneliness who in there right mind wants only themselves there was a movie with will smith about being alone the last man on earth that's how it feels like if people ignore you people want nothing to do with you people treat you like a burden it's like in highschool they have there tables there friends and imagine the loner of the school sitting down with the popular kids they would look at him like we don't want you here can you leave people can tell if they are wanted or if they are a problem or burden and I don't know what to do if you have been on your own how do you do it because it's tough if you ask anyone it's tough to be alone it's even harder when you feel the world has turned it's back on you like you are all you have in the world