my boyfriend will sometimes INITIATE sexual things with me by fingering me or whatever but then will immediately just get on his phone and play games while touching me and act uninterested in what he wanted to do in the first place?? other times he seems completely into doing things to me, won’t be on his phone, and will beg to keep doing it for hours even. i don’t know if it’s because of his adhd and he just feels like he needs to do other things too but it just doesn’t make sense to me. when he does this i just push him away and he asks “are you done?” i just find it incredibly rude and a turn off. it makes me feel embarrassed so i never asked but i think i need to next time it happens. so until i ask him about it, any ideas why he’d be doing this?