Frustration

jenna

So my husband and i have been ttc for almost two years now. We had to stop on occasion due to help issues. Before the poylpa wete found everything seemed to be going well with the new obgyn and now it feels like she is looking for stuff to push off getting pregnant because of my weight. And is telling me i shouldn't be ttc until i lose another 70 pounds after i have already dropped 30. Plusbi may have a hormone imbalance however she will not look into it until im down to the weights she saysbis best for me. Do i fire or my obgyn or do i listen to what she tells me and keep putting off trying and hope aome day i can even get close tot he weight she deems is safe? Am i alone in this experience or is this a normal thing for drs?