When is grounds for divorce my husband and I only been married 10 months together almost two years. He has a three+ year old from some random f**k and she kept baby hopping it would land her a BF. Before we met I met him when baby was alittle over one. Anyways my husband pretended to be everything and more he gave me the most beautiful wedding but the marriage is shit we planed on having a little one of our own we struggled in the beginning and had to seek fertility assistance. But we are now blessed and at high risk unfortunately praying for my baby.

This man denied and treated me horrible when we found out I was prego accused me of cheating and kicked me in the belly and him and his mom acted as if I was a side bitch.

my husband had moments where he is a narsasist and manipulative and controlling he abuses me mentally and emotionally and threatens to hurt me physically he always makes a comment about my face because I was assaulted the year before we met and had facial reconstruction surgery on my orbital wall was blown out. He threatened in Past to rebreak it I say how can u say u love me and u want to hurt me he like there is a difference.

He doesn’t value our marriage or the titles that come with it he doesn’t respect me and now every time he gets mad he calls his mom and then his mom fills his head with shit she had never to lecture me through text and phone call till about being a wife a step mom and becoming a mother soon, one day because I was at hospital all day with my own mom and came home late not in for for five min got demanded to cook and I decided to take ten min break before I start( yes I fed my step son before I sat hand and yes I left plenty cooked food before I left town.) ended in me crying my eyes out in kitchen on floor holding my belly. My husband never gives me hard time when comes to this he was just looking for something argue about and his mom keeps brain washing him saying hurtful shit

My husband says wife is just a title then today at 5:30 am he snaps at me over something so little needed big he was disrespectful I told him stop speaking to me this way and I can’t deal no more he is disgusting and he said if I’m nasty get the fuck out I said I will then tells me to leave at 5:30 am to call someone get me. I sat there he’s like calling me names says u leave I’ll throw everything out I swear don’t come back I promise on my son and YOUR UNBORN . IDC no more I tried to remain calm for my unborn. I’m like I’m glad u see u said my unborn then he said u know what I mean I don’t have to put a title on everything like wife smfh.! I hate him at this point how can u say u love someone and treat them so bad and my unborn. He wouldn’t even have his son in his life if I didn’t help him win joint custody.

Anyways he went back to bed so did I I woke up to him wanting to have fun 😒😩 I give in because I don’t want to argue even tho I’m tired.

He then tried to force anal we never do anal the fuck I told him no. So he finishes and then acts like nothing happens then asks for breakfast then baby wakes and ny long day begins

I feel more as if I’m more a servant I cater to him and his every need and his son. Ps we also have a dog that I didn’t want and ofcourse I gotta take care of her too.! While pregnant.

I never open up to my mom but I couldn’t take no more and I vented she said I have one more episode she taking me outa here till I have her grandchild I’m so scared ima lose my baby because of this. I come from long line of abuse I feel I’m losing myself and if I lose my baby I’m done 😞

How do I just leave and walk away.! How do I be strong for my baby if I can’t even be strong for me god help me 😞🙏🏼 plz pray for my strength