I’m so lost

Babygirl

So I’m married into a Pentecostal family my in-laws are pastors we’ve had our ups and down right now I’m not going to church on regular basis but I’m working on my true God there’s a profit that I watch on fb live and he ministered to me a week or two ago saying I needed to forgive my mom or someone from my moms side of the family but I’m sooooo confused I dont have anything against my mom I don’t harbor any resentment or anything towards her yeah things were rough growing up but I don’t feel any type of way about it and I’m so lost because my husband thinks I resent her with out knowing it and I don’t understand everyone thinks I should hate her or I do hate her and I don’t I love my mom I don’t like certain things she does and says but doesn’t everyone have that problem????? I really need help I can not figure this out!!!!