Venting| Lying Husband
So I just found out that my husband went behind my back and got a girls number and social media account and was talking to her while I was pregnant. I always noticed him looking at girls and acting a certain way when there were females in the room, like he tries to be seen and noticed. I use to get mad and would tell him about himself . But he would swear up and down that he wasn’t doing that and that he had a lot on his mind and that a girl was the last thing on his mind. We were working together and I was pregnant and while we were working there was this girl that came to work there after us. I would see him looking at her and I would always get mad and tell him about hisself . He would deny deny deny. He even go as far as telling people that I’m always stressing him out and always accusing him of looking at someone.I just feel like if you’re with your partner it’s unacceptable unless you guys have that type of relationship and we don’t. It’s embarrassing tbh to see that. Even when I see someone do that to me I get annoyed like why are you staring me down when you are with your partner it’s disrespectful, anyways I started getting nauseous and sick at the job ,so I had to leave the job . So fast forward to a couple days ago I found out that he went and got her number and social media after all the lying denying and acting like I was crazy ! It happened 2yrs ago but I’m just now finding out and I’m soo angry because I feel like just that says a lot about the type of person he is.when I confronted him he didn’t and couldn’t say anything and haven’t said anything about it since last week Wednesday it’s Sunday .He’s been trying to talk to me like everything is normal no sorry no nothing for the past few days and I’m just annoyed , I’m not ready to leave because we have a whole family together but I want to don something that’s going to hurt him emotionally but idk what to do. I know it’s not healthy but I’m so mad that he could do that. Because that means that’s something he does and the fact that we even talked about it he didn’t care to at least not entertain her but he did. I don’t know what to do even though it was 2yrs ago .He’s always lying, and I feel like I can’t trust him before but even more now .
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