Hey pretty gals, so a recurring theme I see here is girls avoiding confronting their F-boy, friends with benefits, boyfriends or husbands at the risk of seeming or sounding "crazy".

It's like:

Scenario 1- "We have sex, we talk all the time, but I know he sees other women. He tells me he only wants to be with me though, so he doesn't want me talking to other guys. How can I approach this without sounding CRAZY?"

Or

Scenario 2- "I found out my husband is talking and texting with this girl at his office, how can I talk to him without (yet again) sounding crazy?"

I'm just kind of perplexed about the phenomenon.

I know things are for the most part shades of gray, but in this case I'm very much a black and white gal.

First scenario: I'm giving you my time, energy and body, so he's the crazy one if he expects to get all this without the bare minimum of explaining to me where the heck we stand. We're together but not exclusive? Oh baby! Let me show you what that means, leave something valuable unnattended: it gets taken.

Second scenario: Honestly, I would confront my hunny bun if I saw shady ONLINE behavior, so I sure as ish would confront him about something so serious.

Just want to understand why it's so awful to be called crazy, when it's clearly used as a gaslight technique to keep said woman small, shushed and compliant. I absolutely mean no judgment but would love to understand why for some women it's the worst thing to appear or be called: crazy!