My 1 year old is so freaking annoying

I swear my daughter is the most destructive fucking toddler ever. I can’t even go anywhere without her making a mess. I have a 4 year old then her and I’m currently pregnant. Everything she fucking touches turns into a gosh Damn mother fucking mess. Fuck she’s annoying man. Getting into shit, not listening, always hitting her brother, screaming. I’m doing gentle parenting but man I feel like spanking her butt sometimes cuz she’s on my nerves, but i don’t. I clean this house top to fucking bottom just for this little girl to trash it. I’m too pregnant for this shit. Discipline doesn’t work. She doesn’t give a fuck at all. Time outs don’t work, spending one on one time doesn’t work. NOTHING. I wanna scream no Damn lie. I get it, kids are kids but this toddler she’s something else. Nobody wants to watch her. Not my mom, shit not even her own damn dad. She’s just a lot to deal with.