Hello,

My partner and I always wanted 2 kids. Then we had our Jan 2020 baby and said no way for a long time. Now that she’s almost 3 I’ve been thinking about it more and more and for a long time the pendulum swung both ways every day in if I wanted another or was one and done. Then more recently I started thinking we will have one we just aren’t ready yet. Then on Halloween I asked my husband if we could have another and was serious - I officially wanted another baby. He wasn’t ready yet. We’ve had some talks about it and now he’s on board.

We bought stuff to TTC after my next period but now I’m freaking out thinking what if we regret it, what if it’s terrible having 2 kids what if I can’t handle it, what if what if what if…

I guess I’m looking for insight from those who have done the transition or maybe from those who weeent 100% sure but have done it.. tell me your thoughts when you made the switch from 1-2