Do I tell him ‘NO’ again?

We are staying at my in laws while my house is being renovated. My husband left the door open and one of our chickens got in the house and pooped everywhere.

My husband hasn’t cleaned it yet. He said he will because he left the door open and I’m always with my 3 kiddos. (1,2 and 5)

Anyways, my BIL keeps mentioning us doing our Thanksgiving at my house. I told him NO, the house isn’t finished and it’s messy. He said, “me and my brothers going over there tomorrow and we will clean it. We’re having our Thanksgiving there because your kitchen is bigger.” Like really? I already said no!

Our house gives me migraines right now. We are in the process of fixing the black mold in the basement and getting dehumidifiers. I can’t be at that house until it’s fixed for the sake of me and my children.

If that’s not enough, my son (5) is having a Thanksgiving lunch at his school and my lively BIL invited himself 🙃 I just wanted it to be my husband and kids. We see enough of him right now 😕😫

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