My husband keeps telling me, we are not fun anymore. I am not fun anymore, he reminds me of what I don't do and what I used to do. We've been marries 8 years and have a 3 year old and a recent 1 year old. I had major baby blues after second baby. I know it's took me longer to heal and feel myself again. But him saying these things as if he rather be with the girl I was when we first married...but I am not her anymore. How is it bad that I've changed. 😕 I do miss who I was, I try to be. But I'm so overwhelmed with my responsibilities. His words make me feel as if we won't make it. 😔 I have no one else to talk to. No one to give me advice. I'm just alone.