If you were having a family night out and then your boyfriend mentions his friend is coming and he goes with his friend to the bar and hangs out with us but then mentions that he can go with him to his other friends house? He will be leaving for a week or more for work so I would assume that spending time with his family than his friends would be important. Tomorrows thanksgiving and I hate when he’s hung over because then he sleeps all day or won’t want to do anything