so ive been with my partner for 15 years and we’ve been having sex for 12 years. always great, no issues, 10/10 every time. however, yesterday we were doing in and suddenly he started going faster and i told him to slow down because it hurt. he immediately stopped completely and asked what was wrong and i told him that hurt and when he pulled out i was bleeding.

he kept apologizing 18474747 times and felt so bad, we cuddled for a bit and fell asleep. now it’s almost 2 am; 5 hours later and i’m in so much pain. i really dont know what happened, this was a first for us both. could the movements have caused too much friction and chafing in there? i really have no idea and when i try to look i dont see anything. also what can i take for the pain lol

also should i see a doctor? how long until it’s safe to have painless sex again? (assuming my husband isnt scared for life lol)