If your SO won't have sex with you, you are NOT ugly, you are not unlovable or unwanted. It's not true you're not attractive.

It breaks my heart to read this, post after post. Please realize you are looking at yourself through a lense of someone dealing with their own issues. He could be having performance issues, he could be stressed, he may even just be a jerk with a crazy wondering eye, but you are not deficient.

Never let someone's demons hurt your self-esteem. You are worthy of being loved and treated WITH love. Please be easy on yourself!