instead of coming to me directly, he announces to my whole family that he is depressed and does not want to go to my family's snowboarding event on a group chat without telling me first privately:

we already paid for everything and so it was really awkward because my extended family barely knows him because they only met him twice.

personally I felt disrespected and that his actions were immature. because it's like he's seeking attention from my family. he didn't come to me firsr and left me on read the day prior.

do you think he did me wrong? would you be upset with this if your SO did this?

what do i do now?

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AN UPDATE:

He just sent me a text to leave him alone. and said Bye:

I tried calling. he picked up and he hung up on me right away.

I guess this is it. thanks for tuning in. I am very sad bc all I did was support and encourage him. I would spend late nights talking to him on the phone to encourage, or drive to his work to buy him food when he said he was depressed to the point where he didnt eat that much. byt he would always shut me down like this on phone calls and via text. I said the mean stuff in my last post because I had the final straw because I am tired and drained from being mistreated like this everytime he goes through depression. my health is not doing so good taking care of him and his mental health. pls be nicer because you do not know what lengths I went through to serve and demonstrate love towards him. I put him and his family before myself. I would even call his mom everytime he tried to commut suicide.

pls pray for your girl here she's crying from heartbreak. I guess that's it. thanks again for tuning in. could use some words of encouragement