I had surgery on Friday and my recovery is a little harder than I expected it to be. I read such conflicting things about what the recovery would be like so I asked my husband to stay home so he can help me with things.

He stayed home but he's hardly been helping. The house is an absolute mess. Other than doing dishes ONCE, feeding the animals ONCE (on Friday), cooking on Saturday night and getting us takeouts the rest of the time, and sweeping like, twice, he's done nothing.

I feel like he's using the leave just to relax and chill. Like yesterday I was awake before him and hobbled to the kitchen to make us coffee and he tells me he will make it... And then proceeds to sit on the phone with his sister for like an hour.

I have been feeding the animals every night since Saturday, and I did dishes. There has been no laundry done since I last did them on Wednesday, the house is in a damn state.

And I woke up really angry about it. He's doing stuff now because I've blown my lid a bit but I mean, I'm angry. I can't even stand up straight yet and I have to eat half lying down because it hurts to sit up straight and eat, etc but of the stuff that IS being attended to in the house, is being attended to by me.

Am I being unreasonable for getting angry at him?

Thanks all. He knows exactly what needs to be done. He just waits until I start to do it and then tries to act as if he was going to do it all along, I'm just impatient.