My oldest her dad used to get her a full week and weekend but now he only gets her for like a day or two because of work and she hardly sees him during holidays cause work. She gets upset when her lil sis goes with her dad and she cry’s asking if her dads gonna get her. I really wish he would understand that she needs to spend more time with him and that I also need a break I’m getting close to my due date and my attention will be on baby so she’s gonna need him.

I don’t know how to feel towards him I’m mad cause he doesn’t get her more but I’m also understanding because I get how work can be but that doesn’t mean his mom can’t get her or something. I mean she hasn’t even asked how she is or if she can see her like she used to.