Hello, I am currently 11wks+3. I had my first scan at the ER at 5wks+5 and they said no fetal pole and sent me home with threatened miscarriage. I had my second scan at 6wks+3 at my specialist and she said there was a heart flickering but I didn’t see it. My husband said he saw it. My official first OB scan was at 9wks+3 and we were told baby was doing fine and was shown the heart flickering. I saw it this time! No heartbeat counts though. The NP said we will be able to hear it at our second scan which is at 13wks+.

Ever since I’ve been worried sick about my baby, if he/she is still there or is doing fine. It’s a long wait until my next scan! How do you think positively? Any advice? This is my first. Thanks!