How did you find yourself again after having a baby and not get completely sucked into being a mom and having that as your only identity??

My daughter is turning 2 next month, and I’ve completely lost my identity to being a mother.. now don’t get me wrong I love being a mom and I love my daughter to death but I miss who I was before having a kid.. and it’s starting to hurt my marriage because I’m so disconnected and only focused on my daughter or only talk about her.. I’m a STAHM too so I’m constantly around her n have no friends so I don’t have that outlet either..

Anything helps at this point..

TIA