I feel so mentally drained.

My husband and I got into an argument because as usual he gets defensive when I bring up something that he does.

He went in bathroom and I didn't think nothing of it.

He comes out and I notice lights on his belly

This man had his phone tucked under his shirt in his pants when he came out the bathroom .I said why are you hiding your phone and he says he only did it cause he don't have pockets and of course he got loud and aggressive ..Lord.

Now he reverses the issue on me because he pushed my face with his hand because he said I was loud and I pointed my finger at him.

There's no reason to put your hands on anyone...he has been abusive for years but the physical abuse slowed and now I feel like he thinks I'm just a loser and no life to deal with this.

He is good at reverse psychology and a big manipulator ...I feel like I've wasted 12 years of my life 😢 Then he texted me this ...I guess I should have known better 12 years ago from the first physical altercation.....