I want to start off my saying I love my in laws and my husbands whole family, we all get one very well and my side of the family loves them too. That being said I’m having a c section for this baby and I don’t want anyone to visit the baby in the hospital. I had a c section with my first and I felt absolutely horrible after and they gave me gas pills to make me fart so that was happening in controllably and I just felt so bloated and gross so that’s why I don’t want them coming to see the baby. My mom will be coming with my son but it’s my mom so I feel comfortable her being there. I just don’t want anyone seeing me in that state that’s not my husband son or mom. They are very respectful people so I know they will be okay with it but will probably be upset and not say anything. My husband wants them to visit but understands where I’m coming from but I can tell he’s upset about it. Everyone can come visit they day we bring the baby home though I just don’t want hospital visits. Am I on the wrong here because I feel bad about it