Hello everyone, I’ve been with my current boyfriend for a lil over a year now. I’m 25 and he’s 32. In the beginning of our relationship he was super good about hygiene, grooming, etc but here recently he’s gotten too comfy with me to the point where he will go a week without showering, wear the same clothes that he’s worked in (this includes socks and underwear too). I have my own apartment and he’ll usually come over when I go to work after he gets home from work (he’s dayshift, I’m nightshift) which is fine bc I get to see him more but it just reallyyyy bothers me that he’ll sleep in my bed without me in the same work clothes he’s worn all week and rubs his greasy, oily face all over my squishmellows and pillows 😭 I cannot stand it and I feel like I have to wash my sheets/bedding every other day! I have expressed how I felt about it to him but nothing has changed. It even irks me to kiss him and have sex with him too… I’ve told him things like “I like to be clean” “I’m not going to cuddle/f@ck you as much if you’re not clean” stuff like that but NOTHING! I’ve even thought about getting him a lil hygiene or beard cleaning kit or even cologne for Christmas buuttt idk if that would hurt his feelings or not… I have not flat out said to him that he has bad hygiene and to fix it bc I don’t want to be mean and hurt his feelings but damn I need some advice or something! I really do love him and he treats me like a queen but I just LOVE my man clean and smelling good… I miss it sooo much 🥹 what should I do? Or how should I go about this? I don’t know what to do!